Men and Women - Roles and Myths

Why are men portrayed as romantic creatures? All the poets, painters and sculpturists of this world are just after making money and getting fame by making use of human form(especially women) in any way possible.
They are driven by self love and lust. Is that romance in itself? With oneself.
Are men always creators and women nurturers? Or are these roles put in place by society?
Did man know that women were the superior form by having ability to change and adapt and give birth?
And thats why all the traps were created to limit their existence in some way?
Why are women subjected to forms of parda in every society?
And their vanity encouraged by creating non sensical definitions of beauty and grace?

True Love..

Is love universal?
Do you love the same?
No matter what label you put on it, does your ability to love change?
Is it possible to love one thing or one person more than other?
Or does it get clouted by other emotions such a envy, fear, lust, desire to control and please others?
Why is love always mixed with other emotions?
Because if you take other emotions away, wouldn't you experience it in its pure and unadulterated form?

Also if you love the same, do you really love anything?

Choices..

If your five senses work and you are not a child, you have a choice
You choose to be led
You choose to stay away from happiness
You choose to get bored
You choose to stay behind or get ahead
You choose to feel inferior or superior
You choose who you love
You choose who you want you to love
You choose your friends and foes
You choose to love or fight nature

Nature has a choice too. From the fundamental level of what is coded in your genes to a larger celestial space, from the core of earth to all that surrounds it, it can express its choices whenever it wants

Evolution

We don't cherish and enhance what we have but try and create new
We have more and more kids but don't care for the ones left behind
We want new employees but don't care to communicate and train the ones we have
We want a new generation but have nothing to give them
We want to develop medicines to fix lifestyle issues for adults but don't care much about children who never got a chance for that lifestyle
We live like we will forever
We defy nature eveyday
We want to run away from problems and not care to fix them
But I guess thats how it goes since nature doesn't fix anything either after creation

Its alright that the next step of evolution of is going to be genetically engineered human beings or machines or
earth completely destroyed and whatever is left goes to another planet or
maybe life will start all over again with microbes
Nature will for sure take a course whatever we do in our lives

Expiration date...

What if there is an expirtaion date to life like every other physical thing in life ?
What if everyone comes with a time stamp ?

Would this world be less chaotic and cruel if everyone knew that they have to leave it once they turn 60 (assuming that is the decided expiration date !) ?

Once you have it, do u need it ?

We always dream of something at a given point of time in our lives. It can be a new job, promotion, new car, a house ! We do whatever can be done in order to get it.
Sometimes break rules too !!

Once you have what you want, do you ever feel that value of that special thing is gone? It was precious to you till you didnt have it. You may take pride in flaunting it for a while.

After all that, its meaningless !

Can you ever master the ups and downs of a road called life

I had one of the worst days of my life. It was one of those days when you think that nothing is going to come your way but then BOOOOM ! and you can not go any further.

It made me think if its possible that one can get used to the ways of life ! Can you reach a point where anything bad that happens to you doesn't affect your state of mind ? You just know that this is what life is all about. Going up and coming down !

On the flip side, if you don't feel unhappy about something bad that comes your way would you be excited for the good things in your life ?

People always talk about getting rid of the negative emotions but still they are emotions. If there is nothing negative how can there be something postitive.

Love or Life ?

Something which is true can never make you weak and if it does it is simply not true. You have been lying to yourself about it all along. Once you realize this there is no way it
can hurt you or keep you in dilemma.
True love is not be explained or something that one has to hide. Its greater than anything else in the world.

One shouldn’t feel as a martyr that loves without expectation but one should know that love is without expectations. Something that I have read but never felt like implementing. “True love comes the same as indifference.” Maybe because we are so much stuck in the rules and regulations of society, which doesn’t really approve of a love that doesn’t end into a relationship, that we don’t want to love like that. The question one should ask oneself is do you really want such a love in your life?